How do I get over retroactive jealousy?
He‘s everything you could hope for in a partner: kind, sweet, and reassuring. He has a few past girlfriends, but he says he doesn’t think about them at all (unless I ask him about it), and that the past is the past. He doesn’t miss them and he doesn’t regret anything. No emotions left.
Although he is literally giving me the maximum love and reassurance, I don’t know why I still feel SOMETHING when I think about his past. Maybe it’s my lack of experience (he’s my first but I’m not his)?
I would rlly like to know if anyone has gone through these emotions, and how they overcame those negative thoughts. My mindset has improved a lot over the course of our relationship (1.5 years), but it comes back sometimes and I want to get rid of it for good, or at least learn how to control it.