Caught Wife With Old “Friend”
A little about us. We’re been together for nine years and married for less than one. My wife lied to me about days and times that she took nude photos, that was my first clue. After 3 times of lying about the nudes I dug her old iPad out of storage, charged it and updated it. When I updated she was still logged into her Apple ID and every thing synced. I immediately found multiple nudes photos saved in her hidden album, some saved from messenger (I don’t have a Facebook or the messenger app) screenshots of communications between them and deleted texts that didn’t get deleted from recently deleted. The guy in question is old friend of hers, they used to hook up, and she has assured me there’s nothing to worry about. I stayed awake all night last night watching the exchanges on her messenger app. She works 12 hour shifts and that is when she does this. They talked about getting a hotel, she mentioned how she waits around for him to message her all day, and mentioned how she’s not happy and neither is he. I know I’m all over the place but I’ve never experienced this before so please bear with me. I found texts from Sunday morning at 1:30 where she sent an old video of us having sex then a video of her masturbating, then he sent a video of himself masturbating. She speaks to him primarily on Facebook messenger, even calls through the app, then deletes every morning or evening before she gets home. Any advice on what to do in terms of divorce? we have a daughter together and her live will be flipped upside down for sure but I can’t stay with someone who is doing this. She is literally sending nudes and talking about hotel meetups with guy then telling me she loves me more than anything.