SAHM or part time work
I’m a new mom to 2 under 2 (23 mo and 3 mo) and I’m set to return to part time work (2 days a week) in November (baby will be 5 months).
I’m in a fortunate position where I don’t need to work (we can pay monthly expenses with spouses income) however we definitely benefit from my income, are able to not worry as much about spending and can put some to savings. My in-laws are also amazing have been watching my toddler two days a week and could probably watch my baby as well. He takes a bottle well . I have a flexible job as an occupational therapist and my company has been flexible with my hours and I can do some from home.
I keep going back and forth on if I should return part time.
On the one hand, it’s really hard for me to stay home alone with both babies all week. I find myself exhausted, overstimulated and dying to get out and talk to people. I’ve worked hard to be successful in my career , enjoy the company I work for and worry about stepping away from it. I also think its good if I am contributing a little income, especially because I still have student loans.
On the other hand, returning to work would be another thing on my plate to worry about, it can also be really stressful and it’s really hard for me to get out the door after not sleeping well (still EBF every 3ish hours). Also, I’m hopeful things may get easier at home over the next few months as baby can play a bit more, sit up, eat solids nap in crib, etc. I know I won’t get this time back with my boys and it’s really important for their development .
Curious to know what you would do in my situation, especially to hear both sides (stay at home vs working moms). Thank you!