India's senior citizen health status is the worst in the world. And this is not a physical issue but psychological.
Just talked to my father who retired this year. A peer of his (retired with him), while setting up his post retirement new house, ordered a hospital type double bed (reclining and other facilities) in order to set up for a exigency. Why? Coz he and his wife are already diabetic and over-weight. And the story perfectly captures the sheer stupidity which is happening in our senior citizen health management.
Our senior citizens earn money with the aim of handing it out through medical prescriptions and hospital bills. It is as if they have mentally accepted that they are bound to have diabetes, fatty liver, bad cholesterol and what not post 60. It is a natural phase of life.
And we can spend umpteen amounts of money either personally or through government schemes like Ayushmaan Bharat, this psychological deadlock will continue to increase the healthcare burden. Financially dependent parents will depend on their kids to pull through. We crib about medical inflation but a big reason behind this is the sheer increase in volumes of patients.
Compare our 65 year old to a 65 aged European / Japanese and we realize how pathetic our situation is. This is one of the biggest silent ticking time bombs of our country.
And what is more bewildering is that there is a social status game even in old age health care. Parents compare with each other how their son/daughter took them to so and so glitzy hospital and paid lakhs for their lifestyle burden. Rather than analyzing why have they fallen so behind amongst their global peer age group, the senior citizens have made healthcare costs a show off contest just like marriage, vacations and get-togethers.
I have been following this sub and it is great to watch the Millenials, Gen Zs take care of health. But I am going to say it out loud. Unless, our parents age group dont take care of their health, it will bite us back irrespective of our top notch health. And this isnt just about money. The psychological toll for caring about a father/mother who has been impacted severely from lifestyle related disorders is felt even amongst the millionaires. Families dinners become mundane, happiness is replaced by perpetual sadness, relations become stringent equations.
The psychological issue will have to be changed as of now. A majority of the senior health crises is related to lifestyle related diseases. So when you are hitting the gym today, kindly go on a revolt and take your parent too. You'll are under the wrong assumption that money is the only thing required to take care of them. Coz even after that, you will be mentally jolted. But without money, the mental impact will be manifold.
I hope India's senior healthcare crises gets a psychological awakening.