Stuck
Okay so first off I do admit I can be petty at times, though when it comes to important matters, I'm avoid pettyness.
Quick backstory I have never really gotten along with my sister's partner as he can be rather childish at times and after 5 yrs of them being together, none of my sisters family have actually been introduced to his family, nor do I have the ability to contact him in case of any emergency regarding my sister. He doesn't really show up for many familial get togethers and when he does sits on his phone the whole time and makes things feel very awkward with his closed-off answers.
My partner and myself want to get married though thinking over in its has got me completely stumped. Neither of us really like this person for the way he has treated us, well not treated us seeing as he never is really present for anything, though I do want my
sister as maid of Honour. Idk what to do, even the thought of just inviting him as a guest still feels a little blegh as he will likely end up sitting with the betrothed family at the reception and and fo reasons I won't get into, I don't really want to spend the entire time drinking just to put up with him. Any help will be appreciated, even if it is just people saying for me to pull up my bootstraps and stick it out.