Am I being a bad groom? I’m upset we can’t do my first dance song.
My fiancé and I hired a full stop wedding planner since neither of us have a lot of time to dedicate towards planning. Throughout the process she and the planner have figured out/ handled most of the work.
I have been hands off for most of it, partly due to just wanting my fiancé to be able to have the wedding she wants, but it also doesn’t seem like i’m really needed.
When she asked me to start thinking about a first dance song, I got really excited. It was more difficult than I originally anticipated but we came across a song we both liked.
Fast forward to today, I found out that I had agreed to switch the song for logistical reasons. I must’ve been in autopilot when she asked. Nonetheless, i’m upset that the new first dance song is one that I don’t know. Also upset at myself for not catching the switch when it was happening.