I'm 25F and bf 27M I need relationship advice as someone who is in their first relationship
Hey so I'm 25 F and my bf is 27 M we have been in a relationship for 3 years now and it had been pretty smooth despite us having long distance for 2 years (when we started our relationship) now recently I've seen my emotionally detached to him I don't know why, he's genuinely a sweet guy who is trying his best but I think he is always thinking of a future for us and forgetting the present needs, I don't feel prioritized, his gym goals are more of a priority than me, like when I ask him out for a date he usually checks his calendar for off days and thinks too long to agree if he has gym on that day, recently I've found myself trying to find faults and very emotionally detached when we are om calls too, even when he's sweet I don't feel much at that time. And recently I've found myself attracted to someone from my gym and he's on my mind more than my bf these days
And I had a talk with my bf about feeling emotionally detached and he asked me if I wanted to break up or need a break or how I felt but whenever I imagine us breaking up I start tearing up and I can't control my tears I really don't know what to do, how do I fix this??? And what is the attraction i feel with the guy from gym and why not to my bf and if I'm emotionally detached then why do I cry when ever the talk of breakup comes up???? I have no idea as this is my first relationship pls help me without judging