u/ExactApartment2730

is giving a girl a note creepy?

im in college and ive had a crush on this girl since february but i rarely see her and hadn’t had the chance to talk to her. i usually see her either walking back home while i walk to campus or in the library/outside studying. we’ve exchanged a few glances but never talked. i don’t think we study the same major since i never see her in any classes either. i’ve always found her to be very pretty but never thought there was a good chance to strike up a conversation since i only see her when she’s studying in public around a lot of people/quiet area or when she’s walking back home and i’d have to directly stop her in her path.

im not sure if it’s reasonable to cold approach her given those circumstances and since school is ending really soon i do want to take my chances or else id regret it. i thought giving her a short note saying i thought she was pretty and if she was interested she could reach out to my socials when i see her studying might be the safest approach. but i dont know if that would come off as super creepy since i dont even know if she recognizes me so id be a stranger. i just want to know the best way to spark something without making her uncomfortable

lmk what you guys think ive never done this before

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u/ExactApartment2730 — 1 day ago