What's a kind person??
Hiee everyone 🫶
I keep thinking about this..how do you actually become kind??. What is being kind actually?? And i dont want the Wikipedia definition. I think I've always been the type who others might vote to a kind person if anyone asks ..I used to think that too. But recently I've been thinking im not actually a kind person. I've been nice sometimes. And I've done horrible things to people when I was young ..I was in a survival mode when I joined my new school but that doesn't excuse all of my actions. I still treat people rudely SOMETIMES when im irritated or in a situation where I want the other person be the one to leave. I tried saying to myself "but thats deliberate, you want them to leave thats why you have to do it" but its like those situations where a husband will disrespect his wife or rise hands but he will never do that to his office friends or employer. You get me??
Well, the point is ..is kindness inherent?? I know some friends who have never done someone wrong..its like their mind would neverrr think of something bad to do to people. How does one live with the things they did in the past?