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Sorry but the most masculine & alluring women to me…

Are femme baddies that have a non-nonsense aura & a sense of unshakeable certainty about themselves. 🤷🏿‍♀️ the most zaddy of them all

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u/Excellent-Link1507 — 1 day ago
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How was y’all’s Pride Month?

This was the 1st year I did something every weekend. Also my 1st Black lesbian Juneteenth & 1st time celebrating on NYC’s official Pride parade day, though I skipped the parade & went to hot yoga & partied after. I also got to see Big Freedia & Jennifer Holliday perform on the same stage. I explored local museum and university archives and learned a lot about local lesbian history. Best pride month & it proved to me that I don’t need to center romance or sex to have a fun pride!

u/Excellent-Link1507 — 2 months ago
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I had the best sex with a woman who didn't actually gaf about me…

 ​so now I feel like sex is meaningless.

Does anyone relate? I realize, I had an unconscious belief that you have to really be connected with someone to have like transcendent & amazing sex. & now that I see that isn’t the case, I really don’t know what to think about it. Just seems like something that can blind you to who people are, not something meaningful & sacred.

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u/Excellent-Link1507 — 2 months ago
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Is it possible to love in a non-transactional way?

Like is it actually possible to just love someone for who they are, completely separate from what they do for you including any requirement that they love you in the way you need to be loved?

Can you love someone who doesn’t love you & just love them for their being?

I’m not suggesting this is something to aim for, I’m truly just asking. More of a philosophical question than practical

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u/Excellent-Link1507 — 3 months ago