u/ExistingInsect3025

We’ve been together for 4 months. For the past 2 months I haven’t known anything anymore, just lots of doubts. At the beginning I had a lot of anxiety… then depression, and now nothing at all. I see from many posts that a lot of people have strong ups and downs, from positive to negative. But for quite a while now I’ve only felt very disconnected, cold, like I don’t care about anything anymore. I don’t feel anything for her anymore. How can it be ROCD if I don’t have positive swings? Many people say they know they love their partner but just can’t feel it. Why not me? I don’t understand anything anymore…