u/Existing_Ground_8326

Problem/Goal:

I was married for 4 years and became a widow at 32 (no kids).

For almost a year, I didn't go out at all. Lately, I've been feeling ready to enjoy life again but I'd rather not socialize with friends who knew my husband personally.

Any advice what would be a good starting point?

1. I've been wanting to reconnect with old friends from before him instead. i know this one will take time.

2. I'm looking for communities in Makati I could join, ideally ones geared toward people in their 30s? Physical activity, games, competitions, book club whatever

I don't want to feel guilt anymore for being happy and for loving life again.