Do men ACTUALLY want someone who’s super into them
I 27F am in a long distance relationship with a 27M. We both are somewhat active in local organizations and such as were early in our career but he most definitely has me beat in this area.
Naturally, and also out of respect some too, I’ve been less interested in going out. I get hit on a lot and also I just don’t care about attention from other people. I’ve noticed my bf go out less since we got official but he still goes out and has a life.
I feel kind of lame that I wait at home for him to text or call me. I’ll go do random stuff alone to take my mind off of him.. but still care so much about what he’s up to. I’ve literally posted pics from yelp on my story, pretending like I’m out, because I’m scared if he knows that I’m 110% all about him, then I’ll get taken advantage of as a result. From my vantage point, men WANT a girl who’s all about them, but don’t respect her. It seems like guys are the craziest about the girls who barely pay them any mind. Speaking from experience being on both sides. Maybe I’m just terrified of being hurt and I’m sabotaging, but do you think there is any weight to this theory?
TL;DR: I’m super in love with my long distance bf and I’m scared that if he knows I’m super into him that he will take advantage of it. Do guys ACTUALLY want a girl who’s all about them? Or someone who keeps them guessing a bit