u/Existing_You_1607

So I've been burned by 2 previous DB's. They started texting me because I had them and MB both saved separately. So convos for both of them and would send them both updates during shift. DB would ask what I was up to or if I was having a good weekend and it all was very uncomfortable for me. MB found out and felt I had done something wrong. So now I dont even save DB's numbers in my phone and will only have the MB create a group chat for us and that is the only communication I do. Is this alright or is that somehow limiting DB as a parent and giving MB extra labor?? I just dont know what is right anymore? How do you all handle communication