u/ExoticMeet3101

I '42F' am wanting to give my partner head from behind, Im not sure how he will respond '40M'.

He does not like me to touch or grab on his ass so im not so sure how he will react to it.

He did mention something the other day we were watching a podcast and the host said something about sucking his balls from behind and my partner says " I wish I could get my balls sucked from behind".

Thinking about it is a big turn on for me but not sure he would be willing being bent over and exposed.

Men pros and cons on this if you have tried it.

I '42F' crave foreplay however my fiancé '40M' is not big into it and it has been this way since day 1 for the past 10 years. He is one of those guys who get straight to the business and thats fine for a daytime quickie or something but on the regular I feel I am missing out.

Im not coming on here to complain about my partner but looking for advise on how to get him more involved. He does not like me pleasuring myself while we are having sex he will push my hand away and says he will take care of it. I honestly want to ask him to start watching porn with me in hopes that will spice things up for him, another issue is he seems to get off way quicker than I do. I am not asking for a marathon but I can go a few good times but he finishes quickly and will try again but rarely it works out!

How do I let him know im not satisfied and need much more foreplay?