u/ExpectationsNRegrets

My wife and I have been married for 30 years. This morning, she told me that she has had no fun for the entirety of our marriage. Last year, she complained we didn't travel enough. This year we have taken 2 extensive vacations, and several small trips. Still, she is miserable. I answered her complaint by telling her she has control over her enjoyment of life. She became very angry with me, telling me her lack of enjoyment in life is my fault, and that I hurt her feelings.