Does it make sense?
I am HLF in a sexless relationship for years and my partner seems like doesn’t care and doesn’t want to know what I do. I met someone on AM and it’s been a month chatting via texts. Only 2 phone calls. Promising the best sex ever but doesn’t initiate the meeting. I don’t want to chase and initiate myself as I like to be wanted. I like him but I feel some red flags. Previously when I dated other men with HL they were very fast to meet and have sex. Always horny and hard. Now… in this situation I am afraid maybe he is not HL and hard as he says. I really don’t want to get into bed with someone new and get disappointed. I am shy to ask to send me his dickpic. What should I do? Is my intuition telling me something I should listen to? Have you had any experience like this and is there a real pattern that HL men would be more assertive?