Ending the “dick size matters” discourse
I know people ask about dick size thing here and there and many guys are insecure about it. I just wanted to share my thoughts on it and wonder if others agree or not. We can end the discourse here so people can refer this thread in the future.
Avg size is around 5-6in. This is the majority of guys and is sufficient enough to pleasure a man especially prostate orgasm. There is even an argument where avg dick hits prostate much efficiently than bigger ones cuz it targets better instead of passing through. So if you know how to use it, you will def have good sex. You know how to use it and does not seem to work? Well thats more on the bottom and chemistry between the two.
Big dick obsession mostly comes from porn. Big dick itself is indicator of more dominant, blessed, more alpha, and higher status that people envy cuz it is rare and people cannot obtain no matter how hard they work. So it is porn’s biggest selling point. As a result, we get this overly big dick obsessed men. From my experience, this is even more prevalent among younger generation as porn became very accessible.
But does big dick means more pleasure? For majority of the people, it does not give better physical pleasure as thats just not how human anatomy works. Those who do, did it to themselves by extreme practices. However, as I stated above, mental arousal is what makes big dick experience better. This amplifies all the pleasure until it became painful/discomfort. Once a bottom is practiced enough to not feel discomfort and size obsessed mindset that makes him extra aroused, big dick feels better most of the time.
Why guys always come here and ask about dick size question and express insecurities? Again, porn and apps. People on the app more not majority of gay community. They are designed for hot people to have fun. When i say hot its face, body, big dick/fat ass. You have to exceed in at least one of them to have a good app experience. This eventually makes the population on the app more size obsessed.
So yes dick size matters but if you are average, it is more than fine.