20F, 21M, I am envious of my bf's friends who are girls, how do it get over it?
I have been feeling envious of this friend my bf has, a girl. She is as tall as me, maybe a little bit taller too, beautiful, has curly hairs, she seems sweet too. She totally seems my boyfriend's type. I can't help but compare myself with her in everything, it feels like she is better than me at everything. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and this girl is in his university, his batchmate. I try to not think about it and he has never given me any reason to think otherwise. But I can't help but wonder what if he actually likes her, he talks about her nicely, they hang so much, and I know these all things are totally normal. But I keep comparing myself with her and I am always lacking. I do not want to feel like this, please suggest some ways that I can get over this. I don't want to ruin my relationship over my insecurities.