AITA for wanting my new roommate out after one week?
I (24F) met my roommate (23F) at work and we got along because we loved video games. I needed a roommate because I've been living in a 2 bedroom and have been asking my parents for to help with rent for about a year and I feel bad about seeping money off of them. I let the roommate move in after only 6 month of knowing each other and things got bad quickly. The first thing that I didnt like was her having a friend stay over the night without even asking if it was okay. This was night 3 of her living with me. I just came back from work one night and found out about it. When I told her I wasnt comfortable with it she then explained the situation of this person needing an emergency place to stay. She told me this after the friend left because I didn't want to make it more awkward than it was.
The next thing that made me upset was when she full chest yelled at me for not making a turn google told me to on a road I was unfamiliar with. I can see where I made a mistake but as soon as I missed the turn she just freaked out on me. I was going like 30mph and I didnt feel safe making a sharp turn that quickly. When I tried to defend myself she just tried to play it off as a bit and kept saying "HaPpY BiRtHdAy" to get me to forget. Needless to say, it didnt work, and I was upset.
The final straw was when we were setting up decorations in the living room and we were having banter. It felt fine, I dont remember exactly what let up to the point, but i remember saying something like "your weirder than most people," thinking it was okay because I've heard her call herself weird in the past, and then she hits me back with "your slower than most people." Hearing that made me break. It felt horrible. I will admit calling her weird was mean, but I felt like being called borderline stupid was worse. When I got visibly upset she said I was a "cry bully." The next day I wrote down my thoughts on the situation so I could have a better and more organized talk about it. It was then I learned she didnt actually think I was "slow," but that she just lashed out with something she didnt believe when she felt hurt. I pointed out to her that I felt that was hypocritical, seeing as she has made fun of me for my weight, my job, calling me "uncultured swine" when i dont know something. I pointed out when she said things like that, I just try to brush it off because it dosnt mean anything. And that I dont lash out and say something i dont mean. We both agreed it would be better to not be around eachother for awhile.
A few hours after that, I went to work. I was fine while i was actually working, but as soon as i had to go home I felt this impending dread. I felt like I wanted to cry because of how this whole situation is unfolding. When i got back, she said it would be best for her to move out because "neither of us where ready for a roommate." I told her I agreed she should leave, and thats where we are now.
so yeah, AITA for my behavior here?