u/Expensive_Record1891

Can’t relate to most of these posts I see on this sub. But my ex-wife broke up with me a week before our church wedding and honeymoon due to a very insane heated argument we’ve never encountered and just overall high pressure on both of our ends. I saw her in person 3 days after the break up if she’s really going to file divorce & return me the ring. She ignored me on that , she just said “leave me tf alone” So I have been. I’m on week 3 now NC. Friends have told me she’s been posting recently lately her missing me and showing our lovey dovey songs of me and her. I’m still lost and still blocked from everything. Do I contact her now or still give her space to reach her clarity or wtv

My wife blocked me over a huge mental shift she got last minute of not being ready for marriage even tho she’s already my legal wife. We never cheated and never had a single argument of nothing. Does no contact still pertain to this ? She ruined our ceremony wedding this weekend and honeymoon. I’ve been no contact on her for 7 days now. I want to contact her this Friday because it simply can’t end like this when I know she wasn’t herself last week. I see majority of posts here that is a gf/bf situation. Mine is more of a marriage deal already

Idk if this is the right sub for this rare case but my wedding is in 9 days. She blocked Me completely from everything 3 days ago. We are legally married already by the court but church ceremony/honeymoon is all next week. She just hit her senses and “wasn’t ready” also we have been arguing intensely the last days leading to her blocking me where I completely lost it after she wanted to change dates just so more family members can go like the aunt who raised her (Long story) I really can’t do no contact for another day or so. I’m on a huge time clock . I’ve spent an insane amount of money for next week . I have to see her in person either at her house or job . She hasn’t reached out at all day 3. I’m so lost and hurt and damaged by this shocking turn she did last minute on me. What’s the right thing to do?