My friend said I’m adult child
Hello! I had an argument with my friend recently. For context, it started due to resume problem, I planned to look for a better job. I told them that I couldn’t start it because of health reasons around a couple months ago. Then the friend started messaging me every day (sometimes for a couple times per day), asking if I did it or not. I didn’t and I felt very uncomfortable with it and I told them several times to stop asking so frequently because it literally turned into “hey, did you start? No? Why?”. And we rarely discussed anything else beside it. Then recently the friend wrote me a huge message about me being childish and that “I actually deserve more “privilege” and “it’s so offensive to think that someone like you have the opportunity not to work your ass off” and “how can you focus on “thing A” when you can’t even deal chores?” (Thing A is a dream I had mentioned long time ago). And many quite… terrible things about my feelings and the situation. And so we finished the friendship. And I don’t know what to feel about it.
I have been doing my best to fix the health problems for around two-three years. Those are small steps but they are really important to me. But it still influences me greatly so sometimes I can’t really do much, so I have to adjust many things. I wonder may the fact I ever shared the feelings to them the reason why they acted like this or not. But I can’t help but wonder if I am indeed an adult child?