Long story short, I got with a bar girl, she stayed with me 24/7 and I had full access to her phone since paying the bar fine. I knew it was temporary from the start and even jokingly said so to her many, many times (but I was lowkey serious, pretty sure she picked up on it). I’m fairly young and good looking but was pretty messed up mentally when I first came to Thailand on long-term visa so I didn’t care too much about her being a bar girl for 1.5 years (first Pattaya then Bangkok, single mom from Thai guy from Isan, the usual story) and just wanted someone to keep me company 24/7 while I figure out next steps since it was temporary.
Was about to break up with her this month by traveling back home for a bit but she’s now pregnant for 5 weeks (it’s 100% mine, she never left my sight this entire time). To be honest, she’s one of the better ones, lacks most negative traits most bar girls have and is a generally good, decent person (except the prostitution part, of course) and I never supported her financially much (only up to 10K baht monthly for essentials, some months even less). Still, no way I want to stay with her longer than the original 3-6 months I planned for due to her past work.
Reality of what I have done is now kicking in… We had some good times but there’s still no way I’m taking care of this kid and not breaking up with her. Especially since I told her to take the pill many times but she didn’t. But now she says she wants to keep it no matter what even if I pay for abortion because of whatever reason she makes up (wants farang baby in case she doesn’t get the chance to have one again, give it to her parents, etc.). Already told her straight up I will most likely break up because of it and she says she’s (mostly) fine with it as long as I give 100-200K baht once or 10-20k baht monthly. Doesn’t seem like she’s joking neither.
Am I safe to assume I can just proceed as planned and break up, maybe give her some money (maybe not, what’s the worst she could do if I don’t give enough later enough? Don’t want to support a child while she’s back working at the bar lol), and there will be little consequences? I still plan to stay in Thailand after this is over however. From what I’ve read there can be no legal issues, right?