u/ExperienceStandard79

Hi I hope everyone is okay and doing well. I'm a first time dad but the start of my journey is not that good. Me and my partner did everything with all our might to prepare for this new phase of life, however no amount of preparation that could really predict the way of life. We are an independent family of 3 including our newborn, introvert and private. My partner is the bravest woman I ever saw. I witness how she survived a 3 day labor non stop pain and suffering (imagine every 3-5 mins of consistent pain with no sleep) and I am always proud of her, what a woman. But what really broke our hearts is seeing our son came out as a preterm infant. Every day I attended his needs medically and financially, we drain our savings just to give him the best medical attention. And I wasn't able to go to work since I needed to attend my recovering wife and baby, sad to say my employer separated me in the time I needed their understanding most. But even in times of struggle good things unfold and thank God after 2 weeks in NICU our baby boy is safe and cleared to come home. I have nothing left but faith and hope, too many bills to pay and tomorrow to worry about. I have never been lazy in my life, I always work hard. the day that I stop studying is the very day that I start working also. I am writing this with shame but I'll be honest about it after all We are all strangers here. If someone can lend me I'll be very happy and thankful. Please no charity or donations tho it is good and favorable for me, but I don't want to abuse the situation or be opportunistic about it. I am asking for help as a man. I am applying for a job and I already passed the screening process and scheduled an interview. I just need a few months of survival to be back on my stride. I am a father but I'm sorry I am broke. I am willing to disclose my information, ID's or anything to prove my legitimacy and intent to pay you in good faith.