Vent - why do I feel guilty asking for a few mins to myself once in a blue moon 🌕
Vent. New mom. Baby is almost 8 months. New single mom on top of that. Long story. I had like 6 days of support from the never-should’ve-been-babys-father. I never had the most emotionally supportive family. But like damn, why is it that I ask for 20 mins of help once a month and I have to feel terribly guilty that I even asked. It must be some mom thing I feel like. I feel like most or all moms feel this way. It’s like a chore for everyone even family to help out their loved one or even spend time with their new baby family member for a few mins. I get it it’s my baby. But when they say they’re there to help and then I ask once a month for help for me time for 20 mins, I feel guilty because it’s a chore for them. Ugh. Vent over 😮💨😅 thank you