6 month old is sleep trained for bed time, and some naps (im out and about a lot during th day with her so napping also happens in car/pram/carrier). Its been this way for 2 months.
What happens at night - routine consists of big formula bottle 30 mins before bedtime, then awake 2 to 3 hours later - sometimes can be soothed back to sleep with sush/pat, but more often that not when she goes back to sleep is awake crying again within minutes. Last night this happened 4 times over 30 mins - so folded and fed. Same night before but did cio for that first wake...10 mins later crying again, only resolves with feeding. Regardless of what happens at this point its up and inconsolable every 2 hours onwards. Some nights we can get 3 hour stretches but no correlation to anything ive done.
Schedule - never more than 2 hours of day sleep she just won't. 2.5/2.5/2.5/3. Some days for unknown reasons she can do 2 long naps at 3/3/4. Schedule can sometimes also be 2/2.5/2.5/3. Naps usually 45/45/45 or 30/60/30. 2 long naps happen but are so rare no matter if its a long ww before and an unassisted sleep. When we add more awake time she goes bonkers and long splitnights.
Diet- breastfed with a solid breakfast and dinner in the last ww, with a big formula bottle before bed.
Environment - next to me crib. We are moving her to the big cot this week and then her own room within the month but dreading getting fully up to go sooth between feeds and the feeds as well. Note we only sooth when shes escalated to siren levels to prevents waking or picking up. Around 4am ill move her into the big bed for sanity providing unbroken sleep till 7am. When I dont this she still wakes up constantly.
I understand she needs to feed over night and if this is the way it has to be then fine - but am just seeing if theres anything else we can optimise.