Is this really a harmless joke or a toxic remark?
I’m working at a bank and the only one out of two foreigners who are not an American born working in this place. I have been working here for 6 months already but barely close to anybody. I’m a huge introvert and extremely shy, but I did put my best effort to actually talk and get to know people. There’s this girl who is a huge extrovert. She’s really outgoing, an interesting story telling person, and has a good sense of humor. In short, she has one of those unique personality that everyone gets hooked and wants to be around. And she’s a narcissist, not in a bad ways. I also like her a lot. But I can tell, she treats me quite differently from everyone. Days that she comes to the office, she does make sure that she comes to each cubicle and office room to talk and say hi to others, except me. I don’t blame her, tho, as I know I’m not that much funny to be around. But we did talk and laughed with each other a few times. Until today, when it’s time to go home, there’re only 4 people left on our floor, 2 was talking in the lobby, so she said bye to them. I peeped up, saying goodbye to her too, and she’s like “bye, but we don’t care about you,” and said it in a joking tone. I laughed it off, as if I didn’t care, and said “I know” and said bye to the others. It might be me being overthinking but it did affect me a lot. I just started here, kinda love the place, don’t want to give up this easily, but somehow, I felt like they really don’t like me here.