u/Expert_Title_6636

My only child is graduating from high school, I raised her on my own. I am so full of grief, I can't even believe it. Also feel joy and excitement for her, of course. I cry all of the time, trying to hide it from her. This is excruciating - spending so much time, energy, love, passion etc on this person who grows up and leaves. I'm also tired of hearing "you're still her parent" "she still needs you, in a different way." Duh. I know. I just want people to let me feel sad!

Edit- Thank you for all your thoughtful responses. I feel seen!