“Unintentional Emotional Abuse” = “Grounds”?
Out of the blue a sister is coming onto me hard, after leaving her husband/a brother/elder/normal kinda guy. I knew they split up, she left him about six months ago, two children, and now I’m in this awkward position. But more interestingly, when does “unintentional” (sounds forgivable) emotional discomfort now become ”abuse” that the elders support or decide has occurred? Could it be she just didn’t get her way enough and he finally stood up to her and she calls it abuse? Seems very much like people “in the world” crying victim? But really….I’ve never heard of such grounds before…no adultery, no violence,,,,almost sounds like a control freak married a kinda simple and boring guy and was unhappy enough to frame her situation as abuse and then call it grounds…but it speculate. Question here is: is that what elders are allowing nowadays? Whoever cries enough gets grounds? What are the biblical grounds for divorce based on “unintentional emotional abuse”?!