My partner (M34) of 10 years wants me (F34) to go back on meds.
My partner (M34) wants me (F34) to go back on my meds but I don’t want to.
For context: We’re together almost 10 years. I’ve been on anti-depressants twice in the past and while I found them good, I wanted to come off them and it took me a while for me to be able to do so. Now I’m off them about 1.5yr and I feel mostly good. I eat well, I got a new job because my last one sucked and I go to them about 3 times a week. But we are fighting loads. Lately I’ve felt angry because I don’t think he’s pulling his weight in the house with cleaning or decorating. I also think that he’s always justified in his anger but mine is always seen as unnecessary and too much. He says I’ve been acting mental and I’ve been treating him awfully and he’s not willing to put up with the aggro and the treatment anymore. We are due to go away soon enough but he says that I can’t go unless I go back on my meds. I don’t really know what to do. He says that I always play the victim so maybe I’m not the best narrator here. I should say that we had a fight this weekend about the house and it seems like this is in retaliation to that but he says I’ve been treating him poorly for ages, having weekly to daily meltdowns (tbh I don’t remember those, I just remember getting annoyed about the house but not on a daily basis). I should also say that yes I’m an emotional person and I cry when I’m angry.
How do I handle this, please?