u/Express_Depth_4909

Hey everyone. Using a throwaway account here just to get some thoughts out.

I’m in my mid-30s and I've noticed a big shift lately. My thoughts used to just be occasional fantasies about same-sex hookups, but now they've turned into fantasies about actually dating guys and having a boyfriend.

Did your journey start with a shift like this from sex to dating? How did you address it? Thanks.