Husband gave up Medical School
After preparing himself his whole life to apply for medical school my husband finally got into a Caribbean School in his city. He was not so pleased with it, but we were waiting for him to finally apply and get into Medicine for 3 years, since I started talking to him either he applied or he did PA school, because he is 35 years old. He has ADHD and tends to procrastinate a little and doesn’t believe in himself that much. After his acceptance letter, he took a Zolpidem and “accidentally“ withdraw his application. We called the schools and they accepted him back on the list. Then last week I found out that he missed the deposit due date and that he is out again. There was an email saying he withdrew. He was lying to me for 20 days, pretending everything was okay. I don’t know what to do. I asked him so many times to do PA school 3 years ago, because we are already old enough to make more money and to buy a house and provide a good life for our daughter and not get into more Student Loans, but he told me that is what he wanted to do, and after helping throw the whole process of applying, he does that. Is it normal? How could he lie to me that way? Any help would be appreciated because I feel lost. I can’t trust him again.