I 20F recently found out my boyfriend 20M of a year has been cheating on me about a month ago…couple weeks before the 1 year mark anyway I decided to stay and give him a chance because he promised to never do it again and make effort towards our relationship and I truly wanted to believe it because I care about him…fast forward to today I decided to go on his phone and snoop around and had seen he had a match expire 4 days ago on bumble when I logged in meaning he was matching people 5 days or less ago…I honestly don’t know what to do I rely on him at the moment but I have a new job starting soon I also decided to read up a chat with a old female friend where he had been talking about me and saying “she wasn’t my first choice” and “ she liked me first” but that isn’t even true I had gotten told by other co workers he liked me we talked at work then a few months later I was on bumble and saw he swiped on me so I matched him and then he invited me over to smoke and hang out and literally told me he deleted his dating apps 😭💀 im truly feeling like he’s only with me so he’s not lonely and don’t know what to do?? Also I’m annoyed and don’t know how to handle it because wtf you on dude…the dude lives with me atm he’s paying the bills but he moved in with me?! I payed all the bills before this last month but I truly I feel like a fool and I don’t know what to do….i need some honest advice before i genuinely freak out and I have to sit here normal!! Like he’s not doing none of this saying these things behind my back???
Dude tells me he wants to get married have kids and a home together talks about getting animals together and acts like he loves me…seeems to try to make me happy and does but like wtf…