u/Extension-Rip7513

Ok I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this but I think I’m in the right place…

Important - we’re both guys, both attracted to men in some fashion. But I think I recently started recognizing that I am in love with this man. The way I think and feel about him has shifted in recent memory. However, I kept saying that I wouldn’t date him, and am feeling that I might have been lying to myself. He has also told one of my other friends that he’s not emotionally available for a relationship.

I mean the advice I’m wanting here is mostly just - what do I do, what do I say, I’m not sure how to move from this. Should I just get over it?