u/Extension_Bed_1995

I love her. She is my best friend… but we just don’t fuck anymore. I’m 29, and I have sex maybe once or twice a month.
It’s no one’s fault, she can’t feel what she doesn’t feel. We go to sex therapy, we communicate, we work on it, but at the end of the day, I live a life where I hate what I feel in this moment.
She shows me affection, love, and intimacy… just not sexual intimacy. I don’t experience the thing with her that I can only feel with her, and it hurts to no end.
I love her, but I hate feeling disconnected. I hate feeling like I’m in bed with my best friend who is only a friend. I miss the excitement of feeling wanted to desired, but I don’t know what else to do.