u/Extension_Draw_1367

Hey everyone,

This is really difficult for me to post, so please don’t judge me.

I’m 16 and I’m currently in a huge questioning phase about my gender. I think I’m a boy, but one who likes presenting feminine. When I’m alone in my room, I go pretty all out with clothes and stuff, but I live with my mom, dad, and little sister, so I usually keep it hidden.

I want to slowly start dressing a bit more feminine in public and at school, but in a subtle way so people don’t immediately notice. I was thinking maybe feminine underwear or even a bra, but something that wouldn’t be visible under normal clothes.

So I guess I’m asking:

•	What kinds of underwear are subtle/comfortable and not noticeable under regular clothes?

•	Are there certain bras or bralettes that are basically invisible under clothing?

•	How can I dress a bit more feminine without it being super obvious?

I don’t really know if I’m trans, genderfluid, just a feminine boy, or something else. I’m just trying to figure myself out