It was all a lie !
Growing up, I was the only one with blonde hair and blue eyes. Didn't give it much thought as a child . But people did tease me saying I was the milk man's daughter. The only man I knew as my father became abusive and my parents divorced. He only wanted to have visitation with my little sister. Fast forward 45 years, my daughter got me an Ancestry DNA test for Christmas about 2 years ago. Side note... by this time, my mother, father, grandma, aunt and uncle (who I was very close to) were all deceased. I was so excited to get the results back to see where the family came from and maybe lost relatives. My sister had a son and he had also submitted his DNA. Cool so far. Well last year, my sister's DNA finally gets added and I was shocked at the results. She's my half sister ! Soooo we have the same mother but different fathers. That explains the blonde hair and blue eyes. At this point I'm kind of relieved that guy isn't my father. He was a real a--hole !! No one left in my family to tell me who my father may have been. They all went to their graves with the secret. This late in my life I really have no desire to find out who he is. In the meantime I just check Ancestry from time to time to see if any siblings pop up. I've heard of these things happening over the years but never thought it would be my story too. Apparently there are a lot of us in the same boat. Just be ready for the results if you choose to do the test.