Unsure of what to do
So a little bit background about me before we get into the story. I'm a 23 year old woman, recently graduated. Got an offer for 8lpa but turned it down. And I would say I'm decently attractive.
I've been staying at my parents house for the past 3 months. I didn't talk with them a lot during my stay (busy with other stuff) But from the past week I started spending time with them. Last month they had mentioned that our neighbour's son has expressed his interest in me. He's 28 (but still uses IIT tag for some reason), good looking, well mannered (according to his parents), no past (according to him), and makes 60lpa (the main reason for approaching me)
My parents never said to my face that they want me to be married to this guy, but they been dropped some not so subtle hints. My older sister said not to marry him, and my older brother said do what you want.
I am torn on what to do. On one hand he seems like a really good person (the ideal guy for my cousins, who suggest me to get married), and I feel like an idiot to pass on him. At the same time, I don't earn much now, so I'll definitely be a traditional house wife if I were to marry him (which I don't like or hate.) If I were to wait for a few years (complete my pg) I would be able earn much more.
There is a lot more to the story, but I don't understand which parts to mention and which to not to. (If I write everything it'll be a novel) So I guess I'll add on to the body as I talk to people (hopefully. I really need the advice)
More points:
- I'm not looking for friends or grooms or hookups on reddit
- Both our families are really conservative, so if I marry him expect me to be a housewife
- If I were to go out and look for jobs I could get a 12lpa package with ease. If I were to do my pg (3 years) it'l bump upto 22lpa and if I were to study after my pg (3 more years) I would make 30lpa. (numbers taken from past stats) Clearing the exams shouldn't be a problem and is my headache so don't worry about them