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I was engaged 6 months ago. Maayos naman yung relationship namin. Boring and quiet, sabi nila. But not for me as a person na very into slow life.

Last saturday night, while having dinner with my fiance, may bigla tumawag. Unknown name. Bigla nya pinatay. At sinabi na “sino kaya to” but i saw the name. Babae. I asked bakit di mo sinagot? Sabi nya di importante. Then last night, may nagmessage sakin. Same name nung tumatawag sa kanya. And nagmessage sakin na cheater yung fiance ko. I didnt reply. Natulog muna ako.

This morning, i sent screenshots ng girl to my ex. I told him, ayoko na magpakasal. Lahat ng plans, and mga nadownpayment, ok lang. Ibenta or pamigay na lang namin. Konti pa lang naman yun. Since i really wanted a simple and minalist wedding lang. Tumatawag at sinasabi na mag eexplain sya. Di ko na sinagot. No explanation needed.

Kaya pala, kaya pala tahimik siya lately. Kaya pala kahit magkasama kami, parang absent minded sya. Kaya pala marami siya mga extra curricular. Hindi na masyado namessage. Hindi masyado excited.

This is how it feels like breaking up nearing your 40s. Wala lang. Ganon lang. Goodbye ganon. Stop the wedding. Hahahahahahahaha

Ps: yung alaga nya dog nasa akin. Para sana di malungkot yung aso nya kasi mag isa lang. Kinuha ko mna kasama ng dalawa ko dog kasi lagi lang niya naiiwan. Di na niya pwede kunin. Manigas sya.

So nasa appliance center kami, paulit ulit siya sinasabihan ng boyfriend niya about dun sa washing machine na binibili nila. I guess nasira yung washing machine. Tapos yung guy, paulit ulit na sinasabi “naintindihan mo ba? Ha? Ano?” Tapos meron pang “hoy sumunod ka dito para alam mo” tapos yung babae, hawak lang nya yung shopping bag niya. Nung magbabayad na sila at nakipili na, bigla niya iniwan yung lalaki sa counter at pinacancel yung transaction. Si ate girl pala dapat magbabayad pero umalis na lang bigla.

Grabe. Sa mga babae wag nyo hahayaan na ginaganito kayo lalo na in public place.

I have a nephew (my brother's eldest lol) who left us the child when he was 5 years old because his mom got married that year. Before giving him to us, he left his child with his sister's parents and only wanted to lend the child to us on weekends and holidays. Now, he is 10. Such a sweet sweet boy. He is a bit thoughtful, still loves toys. He asked me this afternoon because I picked him up from his tutor. And then while driving, we were going to McDonald's because he said he was hungry. He asked me if he could Facebook. I said you can't because your daddy said you can't Facebook or TikTok. He said you can as long as he has someone with him because his grandma and grandpa (my parents) allow him as long as he is supervised. I said, ok, I'll call your dad first then let's see. If okay, I will allow it :) then that's it, I said eat first then you can Facebook. So we just chatted. I asked if he was okay, if he was tired of tutoring. Yada yada. Then he wanted to buy me some Legos. 😂😂😂

Then this is it, he asked if he could have Facebook. I asked him, why are you looking at him? He just said to me. “Just kidding” he calls me kidding because I’m his godfather. Lol I asked him “I thought we had no secrets?” And he said, “I’ll tell you later.” I said “okay…” I gave my phone. And then he searched his mom And he said “mommy deleted me” I said “huh?? What??” And he said “look, I don’t have any pictures. They’re just family” apparently, he went with his mom to his family reunion but what he did was take pictures twice, one time he was there and one time he wasn’t. He told me. It was terrible. My heart broke. Why is that. Then he gave back my phone. He just told me “it’s ok nangnang… right when you get married, we’ll still do this, right?” And because his dad is strict. There’s always a budget limit for toys, of course his aunt doesn’t have one. Just go lol but it’s serious.. I was teary eyed earlier. Then when we got home, I asked my parents. I said do you know what his mom did. They said they knew. He always looked to see if he would return his pictures. Serious. My heart broke big time. Idk but he didn’t cry. He was just sad. I wanted to punch his mom.

I just wanted to get it out because I couldn’t process it. He’s such a sweet nephew. He’s naughty but he’s not a bad kid. He’s very gentle because he sees from his daddy how to treat his stepmom. Me and my mom.

Ps: nagPo and opo naman siya but when he gets too excited sa mga kwento nya nakakalimutan nya kaya i always remind him na “OPO nga dibaaa POOO”