Early 30s male. Lonely, depressed, and looking for someone to talk to

If anyone wants a BPD friend and is into long conversations, DM me. Please include your age and sex just so I have some idea who I'm talking to. I’m mostly just looking for someone I can talk to regularly about random stuff, deeper topics, life, relationships, psychology, whatever.

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u/Extra_Bluebird_1020 — 8 days ago

31M moving to Columbus from California - trying to actually meet people

I’m moving to Columbus from Southern California and figured I’d try to get a head start on meeting people instead of arriving and realizing I know absolutely nobody.

I’m 31M and work as a respiratory therapist. A big part of why I’m making the move is that I wanted somewhere with a little more breathing room, actual seasons, lower cost of living, and more stuff nearby that I’d realistically go out and do.

I’m into disc golf, thrifting, movies, weird/depressing art, dark humor, exploring random places, good food, and conversations that somehow go from complete bullshit to way too personal.

I’m pretty independent and sarcastic, a little quiet when I first meet people, but not particularly shy once I’m comfortable. I usually get along best with people who are a little unconventional and can actually hold a conversation.

I’d be down to meet people for disc golf, food, drinks, thrifting, checking out different neighborhoods, local events, or whatever people in Columbus actually do when they aren’t arguing about Ohio State.

Friends are the main point of the post, but I’m single and not opposed to something developing naturally either. Mostly I just want to build some kind of social circle after the move instead of spending my days off talking exclusively to hospital employees and my furniture.

Also definitely open to recommendations for places/things I should check out once I’m there.

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u/Extra_Bluebird_1020 — 13 days ago

31M moving to Columbus from California - trying to actually meet people

I’m moving to Columbus from Southern California and figured I’d try to get a head start on meeting people instead of arriving and realizing I know absolutely nobody.

I’m 31M and work as a respiratory therapist. A big part of why I’m making the move is that I wanted somewhere with a little more breathing room, actual seasons, lower cost of living, and more stuff nearby that I’d realistically go out and do.

I’m into disc golf, thrifting, movies, weird/depressing art, dark humor, exploring random places, good food, and conversations that somehow go from complete bullshit to way too personal.

I’m pretty independent and sarcastic, a little quiet when I first meet people, but not particularly shy once I’m comfortable. I usually get along best with people who are a little unconventional and can actually hold a conversation.

I’d be down to meet people for disc golf, food, drinks, thrifting, checking out different neighborhoods, local events, or whatever people in Columbus actually do when they aren’t arguing about Ohio State.

Friends are the main point of the post, but I’m single and not opposed to something developing naturally either. Mostly I just want to build some kind of social circle after the move instead of spending my days off talking exclusively to hospital employees and my furniture.

Also definitely open to recommendations for places/things I should check out once I’m there.

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u/Extra_Bluebird_1020 — 13 days ago

31M Looking to meet some people in the Inland Empire

I’ve been wanting to meet more people around the IE, so I figured I’d actually make a post instead of thinking about it forever.

I’m 31M. Mostly looking for people to hang out with, make friends, date, whatever. I’d rather just meet someone and see if we click than go into it with a bunch of expectations.

I’m into disc golf, thrifting, movies, weird/depressing art, dark humor, driving around/exploring random places, and conversations that get way too personal at 1 in the morning.

Personality-wise I’m pretty sarcastic, skeptical, independent, and probably a little strange. I can be quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I’ll talk about basically anything. I tend to get along with people who have a little weirdness to them and aren’t afraid to be open.

I’m down for food, coffee, thrifting, disc golf, checking out random places/events, or just finding something to do.

I don’t really care if we have all the same interests. Honestly it’s probably more interesting if we don’t.

If you’re somewhere around the IE and also trying to meet people, message me. Tell me your age, where you’re roughly located, and something about yourself so I have more to work with than “hey.”

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u/Extra_Bluebird_1020 — 13 days ago

31 [M4F] #Hesperia - Looking to meet some people in the Inland Empire

I’ve been wanting to meet more people around the IE, so I figured I’d actually make a post instead of thinking about it forever.

I’m 31M. Mostly looking for people to hang out with, make friends, date, whatever. I’d rather just meet someone and see if we click than go into it with a bunch of expectations.

I’m into disc golf, thrifting, movies, weird/depressing art, dark humor, driving around/exploring random places, and conversations that get way too personal at 1 in the morning.

Personality-wise I’m pretty sarcastic, skeptical, independent, and probably a little strange. I can be quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I’ll talk about basically anything. I tend to get along with people who have a little weirdness to them and aren’t afraid to be open.

I’m down for food, coffee, thrifting, disc golf, checking out random places/events, or just finding something to do.

I don’t really care if we have all the same interests. Honestly it’s probably more interesting if we don’t.

If you’re somewhere around the IE and also trying to meet people, message me. Tell me your age, where you’re roughly located, and something about yourself so I have more to work with than “hey.”

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u/Extra_Bluebird_1020 — 13 days ago