u/Extreme_Ad_5607

So for context, I work in the food industry and yes, I have come to understand that sometimes my schedule will be disrupted due to the industry. But I sometimes feel like my schedule is constantly held hostage by my fellow coworker. She has been working there far longer than me and we both have the same position. We have the same duties during open and the same rules. The issue I feel that has been constantly happening is she wants to keep all her hours, which is fine if it were not for the fact that not one pay periods worth of time(two weeks) is consistent due to things in her life. It's gotten to the point where I constantly have to fiddle with my schedule to make sure I keep my hours and also not feel burnt out. I can't keep up with any of my chores or spend the time with my husband because when I plan to do so, it gets interrupted so easily. I understand it can be hard to manage life with kids and personal health. I struggle with health too even if I don't have kids. I would like to keep being gracious and give her help when she needs it but I can't try to handle her needs and mine at the same time. Has anyone gone through this and what did you do to fix it?