u/Extreme_Bet_7951

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How to achieve any form of sex that isnt a paid service?

Ive realized that sex doesn't necessarily have to be part of a longtermrelationship.

So anything like an ONS / hookup / FWB whatever you wanna call it... cool. Better than being permavirgin.

But I'm a young adult with about zero dating and flirting experience.

Suppose I want to get a FWB as a virgin, where should I even look for potential FWBs? Should I get FBWS out of already existing friends in my life? Or should I meet new people with the focus on them being my new FWB?

How does this work? Preferably not with dating apps. I have my problems with those and while I don't mind sharing my photo with a match, I don't like having them on a public profile like that.(so prematch)

Age range that I'm attracted to is now about 19 to 50 now I guess. Yes, I'm extremely unpicky at this point.

Another point is... I know I'm kinky. I have relativelynormal mild, normal kinks but I'm extremely into them and can't imagine myself enjoying vanilla sex.

So I guess my goal is to get A FWB that is also kinky, or else an ONS/Hookup maybe.(and kinky too again)

I have no problem making friends. But turning it into any level of romance is nextlevel

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u/Extreme_Bet_7951 — 11 days ago