T25 / Paraplegic – How to explore orgasm/pleasure by myself to prepare for future relationships?
Hi everyone, I’m a 25-year-old male, paralyzed from the waist down with no sensation below the injury level. Right now, I don't have a girlfriend, so my main focus is on figuring out how to explore my body and achieve an orgasm or climax on my own. However, I also want to learn these techniques now so that when I do get into a relationship in the future, I’ll know how my body works and feel more confident with a girl.
Since I can't feel anything directly in my genital area, I’m a bit lost on how to start this solo journey.
What techniques, routines, or solo methods worked best for you when starting out?
How do you utilize upper body or transitional zone stimulation during solo sessions?
Are there specific high-frequency vibrators or devices you’d recommend for solo reflex stimulation that are also useful later with a partner?
I’m completely new to this and would really appreciate any practical advice or tips. Thanks in advance!