u/Extreme_Disaster9830

So I’m 14, and for Americans I would be in 9th grade. (Sorry btw for mistakes, I’m not great at English lol) and I hear all these girls, about my age, give or take a year, saying they had sex, gave blowjobs, Made out in public and a lot more freaky stuff. So I wonder, is it normal to have sex at 14? Is it even physically safe? Because honestly I’ve never even gotten my hand held by a guy lol.

and I hear all these girls. A LOT of girls. Saying they did it! And at first I tought those girls just started waaay to soon. But now I actually wonder if 14 is a “normal” age and that I’m just lacking behind. I’m not saying I’m a complete saint in the sexual field. But I have no desire in doing anything at all with a guy now.

So what do you guys say?

Is 14 really a normal age? Or am I not crazy for thinking I’m way to young for this.

Edit: don’t worry, I’m not giving into peer pressure or debating if I should do it as well. I’m uninterested in being sexually active with someone else rn :)