How do I get over it and move on?
I don't want to get into too many details, but here it goes — I had an opportunity to live and work in the US, obtained my green card, and my husband and I had great salaries and lived a very comfortable and adventurous life. Looking back, I feel like we had it all to live a fulfilling middle-class life.
However, we made the decision to move back to our home country and surrender our green cards. It was all very carefully calculated, thought through, logical, and ticked all the boxes. It's been a year in our home country, and if you knew the details, you'd say, "Great, you made it! An absolute dream deal!"
Nevertheless, there hasn't been a week when I haven't felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life. I find it hard to feel fulfilled, even though everything is going so well. What I'm looking for here is this: despite your story or circumstances, what helped you move on? Was it a new routine? Was it a thought you read or heard somewhere? Anything. I'm looking for support. For something that could help me rewire my brain because there's zero chance of me ever being able to get back to the US, let alone continue the life I had there.