He never said that we should stop talking...
The initiative to cut off contact came from me, and after 1 month he reached out a few times to share his achievements, but we never talked about the past, and when I tried to get in touch, I don't know why but I didn't really know what to say. We went 4 months without contact until I sent him a meme; he replied immediately and that was it. The next day he responded to one of my status updates, and the conversation didn't develop either; a week later another cold response to a status, meaning it's never a "now it will happen," it's always a "almost there," and since I am the one showing interest, he doesn't take the initiative to send messages. I want to be guided, not guide. I want a man obsessed with me, texting me all the time, and not have to post something to catch him or make him prolong the conversation, especially since I know him and we've already spent 1 hour on phone calls. I have already tried his version, the one that would do anything to pick me up from work and please me, so this man who only views my statuses and responds with crap from time to time is not my man, I don't recognize him as my man, and that's why I deleted him. I removed him from my contacts and since then I have 'disappeared' for actually one week and I threw myself into robotic and subliminal affirmations... and guess what... nothing. Just more of the same, nothing. The water is stagnant. I know that this man will come back and I don't know what it will take for that to happen. Honestly