u/FOXISure

It honestly amazes me how hard it is to find a girlfriend. I don’t get how other guys do it-some say girls approach them, others say they’re out there actively searching. Dating sites, meeting people on the street, whatever.

I don’t relate to either side; to me, it feels impossible. I mean, sure, I can imagine talking to a girl, but the idea that she could actually be into me? I just can't wrap my head around it. I don't want to believe it’s that easy for people. And the years just keep passing. The older I get, the more impossible it feels to attract someone.

It’s genuinely scary. I feel like someone on a crashing plane with only a few minutes left to live, realizing it’s over and that I’m not going to get anything done. It’s like life just completely blindsided me

Constant thoughts about virginity and a lack of experience with girls can be ruinous for your health. For example, I’ve stopped taking care of myself, and I’m actually afraid that I might die soon, because I really need to get a medical check-up, start going to the gym, and eat right.

In general, it feels like my whole life is starting to revolve around thoughts of relationships and how worthless I am. Do any of you feel anything like this?