u/Fabulous-Benefit-614

My daughter has been with the same boy since junior high. My daughter has recently graduated college with her bachelors. Her boyfriend is working part time at the bookstore at the college. He never went to trade school or had any plans to go to college himself. Now that she is graduated, I am concerned for her future with this boy. Me and her father have discussed in the past our concerns about her boyfriend and she just doesn’t open her eyes. She had just moved back home with us to save money for her future. We asked the boyfriend what he plans to do and he just gets very defensive. Should I just wash my hands of this situation? Any advice is appreciated.