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Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night

So I (23M) have been seeing this girl (22F) for about 2 months now. We’ve been on maybe 6 or 7 dates, she texts me every single day, met some of her friends, I genuinely thought we were heading somewhere real.

Last night my friend texts me out of nowhere and goes “isn’t this the girl you’re talking to?” and sends me a screenshot of her Hinge profile. Active recently. Like last night active. I just stared at my phone for like 10 minutes.

Here’s the thing we never had the “official” conversation. No labels, nothing explicit. But 2 months, constant texting, meeting friends… I thought that was implied. Maybe I was wrong.

Do I bring it up and have the label conversation? Do I just act normal and see if she brings it up herself? Or do I just walk away without saying anything? I don’t even know how to approach this without looking insecure or coming off the wrong way.

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u/Fabulous_Ladder_2675 — 22 days ago