How did you know to get the divorce? I am considering it.
I’m 32 male, married to 34 female.
We have 4 year old child.
I have reached a limit where I’m strongly considering divorce but not sure if I’m just being pathetic and not thick skinned enough. Do I just need to brush it off and ‘get on with it?’
My wife will:
-weekly will remind me how she is fed up of me and marrying me was a mistake.
-Threatened weekly to leave me and take our child back to her home country (where they can have a proper life)
Tell me my salary/income is rubbish and I don’t earn enough
- that I am boring
-Endured her parents living with us ever since my child was born (so for 4 years 😤) this has been a disaster to our marriage. When asking my wife if her parents can go home my wife will explode and complain how difficult it is to raise a child. I work full time 9-6pm.
-Refuse phone calls from my parents wanting to visit the house and grandchild
-Little sex or will quickly want to me to finish as soon as she has orgasmed.
I have done my best. I provide for everyone. I am the only one working so I provide all finances, a car, plane tickets, i pay all bills, food etc.
I never wanted a divorce and really wanted things to work. But with all the threats and her attachment to her parents - the whole situation is making me exhausted. I feel broken and so disrespected. But I don’t want to loose my child Am I just being a weak man/husband? Should I just man up?
For the first time in my life I feel incredibly depressed. I feel stuck and helpless. Every conversation I have trying to make living easier just causes her temper to explode. It’s pointless.
So, maybe I will take her offer of divorce. But having less access to my child kills me more. I don’t see any way out:( it’s 4 am as I write this.
Any words of wisdom will be greatly appreciated.